A bit of anecdotal data on Gomorrist Simulation of Marriage September 14, 2016Posted by Tantumblogo in asshatery, disaster, error, family, foolishness, General Catholic, horror, persecution, Revolution, scandals, secularism, self-serving, sickness, Society.
Sometime ago, I read a report on the divorce rate among women simulating marriage in Holland and, I believe, Denmark, where this gross affront to God and nature has been imposed by government for 10 years or more than in the US. This report made clear that the vast majority of these fake marriages ended in divorce, and that right quick. If memory serves, the median duration of them after nearly 10 years of data was 30 months. Unfortunately, I have not been able to find the article again. More than likely, it was memory-holed as being entirely inconvenient to the successful prosecution of the left’s war on all decency and morality.
So, I must make due with anecdotal data for the time being, and here are a couple of anecdotes that confirm what I read. Two different lesbian couples, one of them a veritable poster girls for the movement, divorced after a scant year of marriage, with both relationships collapsing in acrimony and general ugliness.
A mother-of-two who repeatedly posted naked pictures of her ex-wife on social media to “scorn her for finding a new partner” has been given a restraining order……..
…….Southampton Magistrates’ Court heard the couple, who married in January 2015, split up before the offences in March this year.
The “marriage” lasted for less than a year. Two children were involved, either the product of one of the women’s previous relationships or perhaps conceived via the time-honored and always edifying turkey baster method.
Relationship 2, the poster girls:
For ten of the past eleven years, my family stood on the front lines of the marriage equality movement. Starting with my marriage to Tracie — with our firstborn attending in my belly—at San Francisco City Hall, during the Winter of Love 2004; through the ups and downs of California’s Proposition 8 campaign; to the celebration of our legal marriage, with our two children as witnesses, in 2008; to this final SCOTUS decision — we have marched, campaigned, donated, and spoken with media, domestic and international, radio, film, and print.
And now marriage equality is the law of the land.
And Tracie and I are starting divorce proceedings. . . .
When Tracie and I first decided to separate a year ago, I felt an acute sense of failure
This couple exceeded the over-under by a good amount, but one has to wonder how much of that had to do more with advocacy and serving as avatars for a corrupting and socially destructive movement, and how much was based on real compatibility and happiness.
From my limited knowledge of human psychology, I don’t think there is any combination more unstable than a female-female relationship. Male-male have their own hideous foibles, but the men pass over much of the melodrama through emotional distance and an overarching selfishness that permeates both halves of the relationship. Men are able to compartmentalize, emotionally, far more than women. My wife briefly worked for a consulting company dominated by young women, and it was a disaster. The cat-fighting, undermining, passive aggressive attitudes, and general ugliness were all-pervasive. She shakes her head at the concept of two women trying to live together as fake husband and fake wife.
In this second instance, once again, children are involved, in this case, two boys, conceived through methods that would have made Dr. Frankenstein blush. Is it all skittles and beer with these boys being raised by two severely disordered women? No, it is not:
But sometimes the learning curve is steep, like when my son was being bullied by a girl . . . at school. . . . I knew she said mean things to him. I knew she had shoved him a couple times. But it wasn’t until I saw tears in my son’s eyes that I really got it: she was bullying him, he was asking teachers and playground supervisors for help, and no one was stepping up for him.
The likelihood that these two boys will grow up self-loathing, unable to ever feel properly masculine, and most likely very confused in their sexuality is exceedingly high. In fact, it is almost a given. These boys weren’t conceived out of a well-ordered, natural extension of the love between as a man and a woman, but, as much as anything, as a political stunt, as a three year old’s endless tantrum at being told no, you may not. They will continue to bear the scars of decisions they never had a voice in their entire lives, and it will be a miracle if those scars do not overwhelm the better angels of their nature and take them down very dark, very painful paths.
In all the sexular pagan “triumphs” of the past 50 years, it has been the children who have born the cost disproportionately. But, hey, a small price to pay for a satanic movement to prevail.